As Parents Age

Your dad use to run beside you so you would not fall while learning how to peddle your very first two-wheeler. Now, you walk beside him as he grasps onto a walker to steady his gait.

Memories of mom rolling out cooking dough and frosting a cake, escapes her now because, hers has faded with time and she can't remember the recipes or how to use simple kitchen utensils.

It is a period in our lives that eventually will affect us all as time stands still for no one.

As our parents age it is important to make sure they are taking care of themselves and staying healthy, especially if they are still living independently on their own. Sometimes they will not admit needing assistance around the house and then other times, they may not realize it at all. The idea of leaving home or receiving in-home help for everyday activities can be distressing for every one involved. Before you get to that point, take the time to sit down with your parents and discuss with them what their plans for the future may be before a disability or dementia occurs.

Seventy percent of people over age 65 will require some kind of long-term care services at some point in their lives. And, contrary to what many people believe, Medicare and private health insurance programs do not pay for the majority of long-term care (LTC) services that most people need … such as dressing or using the bathroom independently. Planning right now … today … is essential to ensuring the proper care will be available when the time arises for yourselves as you age and for your aging parents.